This article demystifies the real estate referral process by providing a clear, step-by-step timeline. It covers what happens in the first 24 hours, how to track the referral’s progress using a dashboard like the one on GiveReferrals.com, what to expect at key milestones (e.g., under contract, closing), and exactly how and when you receive your 25% referral fee. The goal is to provide transparency and set clear expectations for both referring and receiving agents.

You’ve done the hard part: you’ve nurtured your relationship with a past client, they’ve come to you for advice on a move, and you’ve carefully vetted and selected the perfect agent to handle their needs. You click “send” on the referral form, making the introduction. And then… what?
For many agents, the time between sending a referral and seeing a check can feel like a black box. A lack of communication and transparency can cause anxiety and undermine trust. But a well-managed referral process is a smooth, predictable journey. This article breaks down the typical timeline, so you know exactly what to expect from the moment you send a referral to the day you get paid.
This is the most critical period in the referral process. A swift and professional hand-off sets the tone for the entire transaction.
As the referring agent, you should also send a quick text to your client: “Just wanted to let you know I’ve connected you with [Agent Name]. She’s the best in [City] and should be reaching out shortly!”
By the end of the first week, two key things should be accomplished:
On GiveReferrals.com, this process is streamlined. The agreement is generated automatically and can be e-signed and stored directly on the platform, eliminating paperwork headaches.
This is the longest and most variable part of the process. The receiving agent is now actively working with your client, showing homes or preparing a listing. During this phase, communication is key.
Once your client is under contract, the finish line is in sight.
This is the moment you’ve been waiting for. The referral fee is always paid from one brokerage to another. It is illegal in most states for an agent to pay another agent directly.
Q: What happens if the deal falls through?
A: If the transaction does not close for any reason, no commission is paid, and therefore no referral fee is due. The receiving agent should promptly update you on the situation.
Q: How long until I get paid after closing?
A: This depends on the processing times of both the receiving and referring brokerages, but 7-10 business days is a standard timeframe.
Q: What if the receiving agent stops communicating with me?
A: This is a major red flag. First, try to re-establish contact directly. If you are unable to, and you used a referral platform, contact their support team immediately. A good platform will intervene to ensure the terms of the referral agreement are being honored.
By understanding this timeline, you can move through the referral process with confidence, knowing that your client is being well-cared for and your commission is protected. Ready to send a referral through a transparent, trackable system? Start here.